Tuesday, June 1, 2010

Jill Zarin: Cried for 3 Days After Party Crashing

Jill Zarin tells UsMagazine.com she still can't get over the frosty reception she received surprising Ramona Singer, Alex McCord and Bethenny Frankel on vacation in the Virgin Islands.

"It was such a Mean Girls moment that I literally cried for like two or three days," she tells Us. "They didn't offer me a glass of water or a bathroom! We had just traveled nine hours, and they knew it. I had to pee! You have no idea what a schlep it was. Schlep doesn't even describe it!"

Zarin, 46, originally told Singer, 53, she wouldn't go on the trip -- which was to celebrate Singer's marriage vow renewal -- because of her feuds with Frankel, 39, and McCord, 36. But she tells Us she decided to swing by on her way to St. Bart's to declare: "'I'm here to make up with everybody!'"

Zarin says Singer and McCord refused to give her a chance to explain.

"Alex was the one to really throw me out," she tells Us. "If she said, 'I don't care‚' then Ramona would have had me stay. [And] why didn't Ramona say to Alex, 'Jill is my friend. She should have called, but I'm not throwing her out'?"

Says Zarin, "It was the most hurtful thing that's ever happened to me."

Credit: Us Weekly

51 comments:

  1. Jill Zarin the me, me, me person!

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  2. You have got to be kidding. Jill is more delusional than anyone I have ever seen on reality tv! She never takes responsibilty for her own actions, and always wants to blame everyone else! GET OVER IT JILL! You have been a mean girl ALL SEASON! KARMA!

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  3. Oh please, gimme a break sista. She's used to dishing out the meanness, not having it dished to her, so that's why she cried.

    How dare Alex have a backbone, and how dare Ramona be gracious to her guests, and how dare Bethenny not kiss her feet altho she'd treated her like crap?
    This woman is delusional and so self-centered.

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  4. I think it's pretty insane that she can't understand why people she hurt wouldn't want to see her. Who surprises people 19 hours away!? She was asking for the drama.

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  5. Good God Jill! We saw it! It was on TV remember, or do you need your notes?

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  6. it was very rude and poor manners of Jill to show up like that so I really don't feel for her...Ramona made the right decision!

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  7. Wow Jill, after the way you publically humiliated Bethany and made her cry, and even tried to turn all the women against her, you must be kidding!!! You humiliated Bethany on live TV like that, you are a mean girl for sure!! Now you cry when Bethany finally decides to let you go? Grow up Jill!

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  8. "Alex threw you out?" Get real, brat! You are just pissed off that everyone likes Alex and does not like you. She didn't throw you out, in fact, you didn't even realize she was in the area. You have offended everyone around you and got your just desserts, finally.

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  9. **Jill, if it looks like the whole world is against you, it may be time to look in the mirror sister.** Take responsibility for your own actions. What you did was rude. It was intended to cause a stir and you know it.

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  10. Oh Jill- the world doesn't revolve around you. Honestly, we see you treat these people like they are inferior to you and then when YOU want to make up you expect them to accomodate?
    Tip for the future: Treat people the way you want to be treated. It will take you far.

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  11. I hated that happened because I loved the show last year when Jill and Bethenny were good friends...Jill has showed a different side of herself this year. It was painful, but unfortunately, she brought it upon herself. You cannot be that mean to people and say rude things to their faces and expect to be welcomed with open arms.

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  12. Seriously Jill, stop trying to throw everyone out of your life right away! Forgiveness. People are not perfect and you certainly are not, must all your friends be perfect to remain in your life??? Count me out!

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  13. If she cried it should have been out of shame and remorse. What a shallow, jealous, mean spirited person Jill is.

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  14. Jill the only reason u when was because you wanted more air time

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  15. I was so happy to see Ramona stick up for her guests and kick Jill out- that shows Ramona's class.....and it also shows how self-centered and out-of-touch with reality Jill is! Good god Jill, get over yourself- you deserve everything you got!

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  16. puhles, JIll get over your self cry a bucket and more , you might get dehydrated but wont get an ayota of sympathy from me , nooooo, btw do you watch the show ,and so you think anyone with a clear mind (kelly excluded ,ofcourse)thinks you are normal? nooooo.Go away .BAWWBY, plz you are responsible till death do u part ,in health or sickness...., she is sick ! personality disorder !get her help .

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  17. Do these women remember that everything they say and do is preserved on film (DVD, video, whatever), Kelly contradicts herself constantly, and Jill comes across as the original Mean Girl, aided and abetted by The Countless!

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  18. Jill, I love ya sweetie but you really should have called after all that rejecting of Bethenny and then you wouldnt speak to Alex when she tried at Sonja's home and you said lets not hang in the same circle of friends all that stuff yada yada yada. Not to mention you mock Ramona every chance you get sweety and I laughed but really it was mean Ramona has really grown on me and I love all you except Krazy Kelly. But you mocked her "milestone" renewal of vows. Hey life is too short something could happen and she was feeling so good she wants the renew her vows its a beautiful thing, now I love ya but mocking that wasnt nice hun. You've mocked made jokes, rolled eyes behind her back so sweety you gotta expect some karma coming your way, and she didnt even know about that stuff. So I say you all make up and dump Krazy Kelly. Luann? put her in her place she doesnt want you to be friends with anyone but her. I dont care what anyone says I think Jill has learned a very important lesson and she is gonna be back on track. We will see Jill being herself again, what we saw this season was a different Jill, the one we all love is back, I really believe in her. Hugs for Jill. Much love sent her way XOXOXO!

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  19. She has serious issues. Cried for three days? I'm sure. (Major eye rollage.) What part of this doesn't JIll get? You behaved horribly and people didn't want to hang out with you. Period. This is not hard to comprehend.

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  20. P.S. If I were Jill's friend I'd give her a big hug and say now lets get on with it and be nice. That doesnt mean sarcasm isnt cool cus I love east coast people and the off the cuff jokes and sarcastic remarks. I love ya Jill, I dont care what all these people are saying about you cus I see the vunerable sweet lady you are. I understand cus people think I'm a bitch till they get to know me lol. I get it and its hard cus you dont want to appear weak, my mom was big on never let anyone see your emotions no crying all that. I get you hun. But its ok you keep being you Jill, XOXOX

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  21. last season jill was one of my fav's, oh how the times have changed. she's just going to say "its the way it was edited" like she always does. her and kelly are perfect for each other, they can comfort each other, while everyone else is attacking them!!

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  22. Jill,

    You're a big fat liar and you're wasting media space. I for one would never give a penny to Zarin Fabrics and hope you're kicked off the show for lying here and in your unethical postings on Amazon. Go away.

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  23. I can't imagine it was that much of a SCHELP on the PRIVATE PLANE you baggered your husband into getting for you to fly there!!!!

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  24. Jill, get real, really. It is getting old.

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  25. Publicity is the name of the game to keep the show alive. These women are just doing their jobs. By getting out there and giving these incredulously empty narcissistic pity me interviews.

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  26. I did not hear Alex tell Jill to leave. Here we go again Jill is making up a story again to make her look better. She is one sick woman along with her BFF Kelly. They sooo deserve each other, who else would want them as a friend.

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  27. Oh poor Jill, the ladies were nasty to her. Maybe she shouldn't be so nasty. I wonder if Bethenny cried for 3 days when Jill talked to her like a dog on the phone while LuMann listened. Someone needs to tell Jill, it wasnt' just Alex that wanted her to leave it was all of the ladies and all of the viewers. I hope she doesn't return next season. I have had enough of Jill Zarinnnnnnnnn.

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  28. dont private planes have bathrooms and drinks i mean bobby dished out so much money for it im guessing it had a bathroom and drinks (has anyone else noticed she always links bobby with money...interesting). and im sure she could have stopped somewhere stop complaining jill seriously ...even Luanne told you it was not a good idea.

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  29. You only get what you give. If she were truly going down there to apologize, then she would have understood why she was turned away. I think she only says now that she was there to issue a mea culpa because she wants everyone to feel guilty for making her leave. And let's ignore the fact that Jill could have peed at the airport, if not the plane, but I wouldn't have thought to ask her if she needed to use the bathroom before she left. Jill isn't a child, even though she may act like one. She should know when she has to go potty without anyone telling her, and had she asked to freshen up, I'm sure they would have been happy to accommodate her. Again, it's another thing to say to make everyone feel sorry for Jill and disappointed in everyone else, while again they are meant to feel guilt. This seems to be Jill's routine. I know women like this. They'll say things like, "No, I don't want the last piece of cake. Why don't you take it?" and once you do, they're pissed because you didn't offer it back to them. That is Jill's sort.
    ~jenniferrae_

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  30. I hope before I die, I'll be able to one day schlepp to the Virgin Islands ~

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  31. Wait a minute. I thought Alex delivering Bethenny's message was "the worst thing that's ever happened" to JZ. Poor dear, she's just an avalanche of worst things this season. Why did you tell Luann "Bobby has a pilot waiting at the airport" before you even went if you were so sure you would be well received?
    You and Danielle from NJ crashing parties then crying victim...cut from the same cheap cloth.

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  32. I don't have any sympathy for Jill AT ALL! She's is so mean and self-centered it makes me sick. She can dish it out but she can't take it! How could she possibly think the girls would be glad to see her? With friends like her, who needs enemies?

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  33. Jill...as you have watched this season, surely you can see the negative, whiny narcisistic way you've been so critical of everyONE and everyTHING! The seats at the fashion show were so uncomfortable.."I'm dying". No, soldiers in Iraq are dying! You insulted Ginger's house doc on national TV.."At least it's just these PLASTIC shoes...not GOOD shoes. Even Luann with her evite invitation! "You can tell you didn't put much thought into it, but that's OK." and "Alex has the body of a model, NOT the face." "Everyday is a milestone married to her (Ramona)". In all your Mother's fabulous advice, did she not teach you "if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all"? Why so critical and negative? Do you think that just because you're JILL ZARIN you must voice your opinions because we are all so interested? Last year, you referred to yourself as "The Queen of Accountabilty"....this year all we have heard is excuse after excuse, hustling like crazy trying to do damage control when it's finally beginning to dawn on you how you have talked to others. After throwing Bethenny's apology and tears in her face, you cried on Luann's shoulder saying, "This is too much for me!" ME ME ME! Too late to try to spin this one differently.....we've all seen this side of you now.

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  34. OML Jill...Do YOU not watch the show? YOU are constantly dishing it out. When YOU decide that everyone can be friends it's ok? YOU ganging up with LouAnn and Kelly...Really? You talk a good talk...but definitely DO NOT live the life of someone who SHOULD be surprised when she gets snubbed...GOSSIP is Great Only Shared 'Specially In Private!!!! You have taken this art form public and you have to pay the price!!!

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  35. You are a fool - you walked in and said hi to 3 out of the 4 women. You have said to Bethenny "We are done", You have said to Alex "We should not travel in the same social circles", You have said to Ramona "you are not my friend". You tried to convice some of the women to not go and been rude to just about everyone - yet you can't imagine why they did not want you to be there - and last I checked the airport has both bathrooms and water. And with that big mouth of yours you could have easily asked to use the restroom. Why you would drag Bobby to an all womens weekend when you already declined is beyond me - all you think about is how you feel and what you want - you never once stopped to take into consideration that they might not have wanted you there and your showing up unannounced felt like an "ambush" and these girls left their notes home. Karma - it is a powerful thing!

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  36. No one threw you out, Jill. You left because no one wanted you there. You needed face time on camera and was willing to humiliate yourself for it. Is that what they mean by "fame whore?" Whatever your strategy for season 3, at least be willing to admit it backfired. You've shown yourself to be an ass and it is no longer entertaining.

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  37. wow... you got Bobby to get you a "PP", was it a big "PP".. . You got what you deserve.You never see the wrong in what you do.WAKE UP!!!....Jill Zarin bad for the Jewish.

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  38. a pp with no potty? c,mon

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  39. Wow, so Jill received 1/10th of the pain that she's been giving the other women for years. This woman is crazy. I know it is a TV show, but she infuriates me, when there are larger problems in the world, yet all Jill can see is herself and her bank account.

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  40. After this season Jill really needs to do some soul searching and look within herself because she really turned a lot of people off. There was no reason for her to treat Bethenny so badly and to be so shocked and hurt when the same was returned to her. If you dish it out you have to be able to take it and Jill obviously cannot. I was a big Jill fan in the previous seasons but no longer. You created a great deal of bad karma this season with your funky and mean spirited attitude. If you return next season at least you will have the opportunity to redeem yourself. Now, Kelly, I don't even want to go there, she is in a "crazy" category all by herself!

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  41. Quite frankly, Alex McCord is out of her league with these women. Bethenny used everyone as a stepping stone wherever she could, especially Jill. Does Alex forget who gave her the 'in' so her children could get into the 'best' school? Ramona and Jill will always be friends. True, Ramona loves to see the sh*t being stirred, then she runs to apologize. Bethenny - well, I could care less about her and her horribly underweight baby - 4 lbs 12 ozs. come on now - that's a tough start for any baby. Simon is a whiny ass bit*h/gay straight man. In truth, they're all boring, hateful, venomous women who would climb over each other's dead bodies to get to the top! For what?

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  42. Jill you are a cruel self centered person. Anyone who watches the show knows Ramona did the right thing. The fact that you just don't get it and give these twisted interviews reveals you probably have'nt changed for the better.

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  43. Well, there you have it. The fans have spoken. Karma is a bitch, Jill. What did you expect? Oh yes; you said that of course Ramona would be happy to see you. Even your side-kick, Luann tried to warn you. Oh well. I think it was a well-needed wake-up call for you. Can you do nothing w/o Bobby? Try to stand on your own for a bit...you can do it. Be your own voice-of-reason and stop relying on "Bobby said, Bobby says, Bobby told me." It's pathetic. Be the wonderful woman you think you are. You thought everyone would rally around you and now you see that no one wants to take your mean crap anymore. Good. It's healthy to take stock of oneself once in a while.

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  44. Jill is a complete Narcissist and i believe the only tears she ever cries are the ones she wants others to see. She has some severe mental problems going on here. She claims she takes accountability but through the entire show I have yet to see her actually do so. All she has ever done is look down on others, treat them badly and then talk about how wrong everyone else is. It isn't just this season people... go back and rewatch the other seasons and pay more attention. Just because she made you laugh in previous seasons doesn't mean she wasn't any less nasty when it comes down to it. All of the women have too much cattiness, that's certain. And LuAnn, please.. her Darling so reminds me of Cruella DeVille! DAaahhrling. GAG! A true narcassist rarely thinks they have done wrong and that it's everyone else, Jill fits the bill well.

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  45. I love Jill and I think she has a good heart. But sometimes she's so self centered. How could she think that Ramona would be happy to see her? It was like "When I decide to grace Ramona with my presence, she should be thrilled and overjoyed to see me."
    Come on!

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  46. After Jill used a phony identity (Susan Saunders) to threaten a reviewer of her book and tell people to steal the reviewer's cat (which is really a dog), she deserves to be removed from the Bravo lineup. Unethical people should not be rewarded with attention of any sort.

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  47. Jill policy of "lets pretende it never happend" doesnt work. The other women are hurt and appoligies are in order.Real ones, no just a fake smile for camara.
    Jill just was curious for all the drama was going on St John according with Kelly's call and she wasnt part of. Besides, there is no action with Luann, only lunch,booooooring.

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  48. Jill, can you say NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDER? Fits you like a glove.
    A grandiose sense of self-importance. These people may exaggerate achievements or expect to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements.
    Preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance or beauty.
    Believes he or she is *special* and unique. They believe they can only be understood by other special or high status persons and that is who they believe they should associate with.
    Requires excessive admiration.
    A strong sense of entitlement. This may include unrealistic expectations of especially favorable treatment or an automatic compliance by others with his or her expectations.
    Interpersonally exploitative, often taking advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends.
    Lack of empathy, unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others.
    Often envious of others or believes others are envious of them.
    Demonstrates arrogant or haughty behaviors or attitudes.
    Signed Michelle

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  49. It is amazing how engulfed we as a society on the actions of the NYHW but, on that note Jill was the one that started the whole thing from the moment that she had Luanne listen from speaker phone when Beth was talking to her...that was so high school and as far as Alex it is still unclear what it was that transpired her ill feelings towards Jill but what I find ironically is that Jill is promoting a book in about how to handel situations and I clearly think that she was quite underage on how she responded to the St Bart invite all the way down to her pop in....

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  50. I agree with one of the anonymous, that Bethenny uses people,especially Jill. Alex is out of her league, and forgot about Jill's help with the "best school" for her out of control children, and I'll add that it seemed to me that Alex was just looking for any reason to go off on Jill,that whole Alex/Jill thing made no sense...
    But this does not give Jill the "green light" to be a rude, selfabsorbed witch...Jill, you need to watch season 3 and really look at yourself,LuAnn befriended you and all you can do is be nit-picky, like with the e-mail invite,"it's not formal,doesn't matter whatever", DO YOU HAVE TO CRITICIZE EVERYTHING AND EVERYBODY BUT YOURSELF??? You are beyond fortunate that your husband Bobby stands beside you no matter how cruel and rude you are....What I wouldn't give to find a husband as understanding,loving,caring,generous and loyal as Bobby....And look what you give him back...
    signed, Maggi

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  51. Awww, poor baby!! You got what you deserved!

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